tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-231056327765729534.post2582991157818112125..comments2023-11-10T06:33:05.899-05:00Comments on Awkward Moments: The AftermathAwkwardMomentshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11854477296635420810noreply@blogger.comBlogger10125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-231056327765729534.post-58127760538530947472007-07-26T00:09:00.000-04:002007-07-26T00:09:00.000-04:00-"melted my soul to a degree that may never fully ...-"melted my soul to a degree that may never fully recover from"<BR/><BR/>My fervent prayer for you, sweet lady, is that one day neither of you will remember that look or those tears that broke your heart.<BR/><BR/>OK... I hate it when people give me advice about ttc... but here goes, because I am on cycle 1 of clomid with hCG shot.[Stopped going to the RE for 6 years after Clomid for 3 cycles.] I have to wait until next Thursday before POAS and I am quite frankly enjoying not knowing. Because waiting is eternally more wonderful than knowing, and it being a BFN.<BR/><BR/>My coworker had an IUI back in March. She had 4 cycles of clomid and the 4th is the only time she ovulated. Her sister had 6 cycles of clomid and finally got pg when they had STOP (scheduled time of procreation) every single flipping day from 10 through 18 of her cycle.<BR/><BR/>So that's what Rob and I did this cycle. I swear to high heaven I have callouses down there. UGH!!!<BR/><BR/>Anyway, I have no idea if that will help you or just make you roll your eyes, but I felt the need to share.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-231056327765729534.post-288030614874763592007-07-23T11:22:00.000-04:002007-07-23T11:22:00.000-04:00Your feelings are totally normal, I guessed we all...Your feelings are totally normal, I guessed we all feel the same every cycle, but don't give up hope... <BR/>What would life be like without hope?<BR/>Hugs to you!YMShttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01927712335685606682noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-231056327765729534.post-41733626343461839842007-07-23T00:11:00.000-04:002007-07-23T00:11:00.000-04:00Ugh, what a feeling of crap I have for you right n...Ugh, what a feeling of crap I have for you right now...I'm so sorry. I, too, have had similar convo's with myself about ttc and IF. I cry less and less with every new cycle and I'm not sure if I like that fact or not. I get tired of the emotions sometimes, but other times I wish I felt more...I hope your weekend for you went okay, and tomorrow, well, we'll both put on our big girl panties and continue traveling together (I go to my dr tomorrow--did a blog on it). Take care girl and here's to hangin' in there for another rinse.Chttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01484007558206947938noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-231056327765729534.post-71819617351894860832007-07-22T06:31:00.000-04:002007-07-22T06:31:00.000-04:00I'm so sorry you're going through this. There is n...I'm so sorry you're going through this. There is no easy way to the other side, and no words will make the journey smoother. Just ride the emotions, cry when you want, and don't hold back or think you HAVE to be strong. Just be in the moment and you both will handle it the way you can best. Thinking of you!KarenOhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08430826693486690223noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-231056327765729534.post-26621370120021179072007-07-22T02:45:00.000-04:002007-07-22T02:45:00.000-04:00Dear Farah, I have this kind conversation with mys...Dear Farah, I have this kind conversation with myself all the time. I am sorry about the BFN, I am right there with you. This cycle I did not cry when AF arrived, but CD2 got to me and I cried on my way to work and on my way back home, and I cried myself to sleep. Next day, cd3, clomid all over again. .. and I keep on cycling<BR/>. As for your DH, I am sorry that it hit him too. My DH has managed to stay immune to all of this. He tells me, what do you want? for both of us to be heartbroken? after I read your post, I guess not. Thanks a lot for sharingCibelehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02361386515177047271noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-231056327765729534.post-46157737137485933772007-07-21T15:29:00.000-04:002007-07-21T15:29:00.000-04:00It sounds like you are coping extremely well, and ...It sounds like you are coping extremely well, and having very normal thoughts. :) Obviously there are no guarantees with IF, but I truly hope that you receive amazingly wonderful news on the next go round!Courtneyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13106036194597521340noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-231056327765729534.post-59923236880860307502007-07-21T08:56:00.000-04:002007-07-21T08:56:00.000-04:00Such a strong woman you are!! Rinse and repeat--we...Such a strong woman you are!! Rinse and repeat--we are all used to that arent we? I wish this had been it, but I know IT isnt far away...JJhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18027548058304720360noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-231056327765729534.post-69511618893930198982007-07-21T08:01:00.000-04:002007-07-21T08:01:00.000-04:00I'm so, so sorry! What a disappointment! It is w...I'm so, so sorry! What a disappointment! It is wierd to see how men deal with IF versus women. My hubby has never showed a shed of emotion about the whole thing. But, I know it's tearing him up inside, just being strong for me so I don't fall apart. I hope you enjoy your coffee and ice cream this weekend.Shelbyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11618450893147930174noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-231056327765729534.post-74269087400625390672007-07-21T00:25:00.000-04:002007-07-21T00:25:00.000-04:00I'm so sorry. I've seen Mr. Kite cry and it breaks...I'm so sorry. I've seen Mr. Kite cry and it breaks my heart too. Because really, it's a team effort and although they try to be strong for us, they also feel broken every time we get a BFN. Hugs to you both.Baby Blueshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09283845137728737575noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-231056327765729534.post-22590111382587603852007-07-21T00:12:00.000-04:002007-07-21T00:12:00.000-04:00I am so very sorry. I have not yet seen DH cry abo...I am so very sorry. I have not yet seen DH cry about any of this but I can imagine it would break my heart more than any pain I would feel on my own. I too, talk to myself in the shower and wonder why it hurts a little less each cycle. I hope it is not that we are getting hardened. I hope it is so that we can have the biggest surprise of our lives very, very soon.<BR/>Enjoy your ice cream and take care of yourself this weekend. Monday pull on the big girl panties and get back at it. Hugs to you.nickoletta100https://www.blogger.com/profile/17687545335045943082noreply@blogger.com